A lefty-friendly guide to learning golf — your way.
⛳ INTRO
Let’s be honest — golf can feel like its own language sometimes. Between “fade,” “pitching wedge,” and “par,” it’s easy to feel out of place before you even step on the green. I remember starting out as a left-handed golfer and thinking where do I even start?!
This post is your no-pressure, beginner-friendly guide to key golf terms and when (and how) to actually use your clubs. Chic vibes, helpful info — zero gatekeeping. Whether you are here to learn for you or be the best cart princess there is.
This post is your no-pressure, beginner-friendly guide to:
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Golf terms (that won’t make your head spin)
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Which club to use (and when)
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How to swing like you — not like everyone else
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And what nobody tells you: how to know if you’re actually left-handed in golf
🏌️♀️ COMMON GOLF TERMS (aka decoding the group chat)
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Par: The expected number of strokes it should take to complete a hole. If it’s a par 4, your goal is 4 strokes.
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Birdie: One stroke under par (ex: you get it in 3 on a par 4).
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Bogey: One stroke over par (you took 5 on a par 4).
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Fairway: The nice, trimmed grass path between the tee box and the green — where you want your ball to land.
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Rough: The thicker grass off to the sides — harder to hit from.
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Green: The smooth grass around the hole, where you putt.
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Tee Box: Where you take your first shot on each hole.
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Chip Shot: A short, low-lofted shot (think gentle lift onto the green).
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Putt: A short, rolling shot using your putter — ideally on the green.
🏌️ CLUB 101: WHAT TO USE & WHEN
Let’s make it make sense.
👟 Off the Tee (aka the first shot)
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Driver: Big club, big distance. Use it on longer holes to get the ball way down the fairway.
Tip: It’s OK if this feels wild at first — practice your tempo, not just power.
🌱 On the Fairway
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Fairway Woods (3W, 5W): Good for long shots when you’re still far from the green.
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Hybrids: Great for beginners — easier to hit than long irons (and more forgiving).
If you’re lefty, find one that feels natural in your hand — don’t force it.
⛳ Approaching the Green
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Irons (7–9): For more controlled shots as you get closer to the green.
The higher the number, the shorter and higher the shot.
✨ Around the Green
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Wedges (Pitching, Sand, Lob):
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Pitching Wedge = standard short approach
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Sand Wedge = bunker shots or thick grass
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Lob Wedge = super short, high-loft shots
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🏁 On the Green
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Putter: The most-used club in your bag — and it’s all about finesse, not force.
📏 PROPER SWING & STANCE BASICS
Let’s keep it simple — you don’t need a perfect PGA Tour swing. You need a repeatable swing that works for your body.
🦶 1. Stance
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Feet about shoulder-width apart
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Knees slightly bent, posture athletic (not stiff)
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Weight balanced, leaning just a little forward onto the balls of your feet
🏌️ 2. Grip
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Hold the club with relaxed strength (death grip = disaster)
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Most beginners use the overlap or interlock grip : I interlock my pinky & pointer finger
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Let your arms hang naturally — don’t force it
🌀 3. Swing
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Backswing = smooth and controlled
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Downswing = shift weight to your front foot and rotate your hips
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Follow-through = don’t stop at contact — extend and finish facing the target
✨ Pro tip: Film yourself occasionally — it’s the easiest way to notice what feels off (or actually looks amazing).
🫰 ARE YOU A LEFTY OR RIGHTY GOLFER?
This is huge — and not talked about enough.
Here’s how to figure it out:
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Which hand feels strongest or most in control?
If your left hand guides the swing and feels dominant, you may be a lefty golfer. -
Which side feels natural when you swing a bat, throw a ball, or hit with a broom?
Your swing direction often aligns with those instincts.
✋ I’m left-handed, and finding lefty clubs — especially cute, quality ones — was a struggle. So if you’re lefty too, you’re not alone. Even better? I’m a righty with almost everything else I do. So don’t force one side more than the other just because that’s your dominant side.
💬 FINAL THOUGHTS
Golf doesn’t have to be complicated. You don’t need to know everything — just enough to show up, swing with purpose, and enjoy the game on your terms.
You’re allowed to take up space on the green — whether you’re a lefty, a beginner, or just learning what club to use without Googling mid-round.
You don’t have to play “their” game to play well. Play yours.
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